My husband. My quiet, thoughtful, brilliant husband.
We don’t often gush over each other publicly or on social media, but exceptional talent and beautiful expression must be shared. (He is probably cringing at my use of the word ‘gush.’)
Danny wrote this piece following the death of my grandma Virgie and I am grateful (albeit shocked) that he has allowed me to share it here. If you are prone to tears, best not to read this in public.
71
71 years
A lifetime together
To love
To learn
To live
For one another.
His heart
His rock
His life
Went away
He knew it would come,
just not the day.
Oh, what a gift
71 would be.
The kids,
the grandbabies,
all the beauty we’d see.
71 is a lifetime to be,
But after 17
I can see
one lifetime’s not enough
for me.
Just kids when they met
fell quickly for each other.
Through time and chance,
and circumstance,
great forces
bound them together.
One ship they would board
on the vast open sea.
Together they promised to be.
Through wind and rain,
and sunny days,
for life and eternity.
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
One lifetime’s not enough for me.
Years and kids
hustle and busy
She, his partner in crime.
Their lives, no longer
only their own.
He only wished
they had a little more time.
He never thought
it could be so
’cause he loved her more
than she’d ever know
but that love had grown
to uncontainable size.
It overflowed
with every thought of her
with mist in his eyes.
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
One lifetime’s not enough for me.
The end is near.
He can barely see
or hear.
He can hardly walk on his own.
Though he’s losing his sight
she is a light,
a guide, a song, and a home.
Getting hard to speak.
Don’t know what she’s saying
but that old familiar hand
and the spark
that runs through it
is the anchor that holds.
This is love.
They always knew it.
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
Don’t let go of me
One lifetime’s not enough for me.
He sits in his chair
above the stone
that bears their names
as dirt falls
on his love’s remains.
My anchor is gone.
My ship’s floating
out to sea.
Don’t know where I am going.
In the fog
I cannot see.
When my journey
is done
and this ship goes
to rest
I don’t know
where I will be.
But please say you’ll be waiting for me.
Oh, what a gift
71 would be.
The kids,
the grandbabies,
all the beauty we’d see.
But after 17,
I can see
One lifetime’s not enough
for me.
Wow-just wow. Amazing words and so sweet. Thank you both for sharing.
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Very beautiful.
I am always in awe of someone who can write from the heart.
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Absolutely beautiful sentiments! I worked with Virgie at Trinity and loved her dearly and you could see the love your grandparents shared! Wat a blessing!❤️
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Oh Christi, what a beautiful tribute to Virgie and Dean, and you and Danny! He is true jewel.
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